Sacrifice

You cannot gain anything without making sacrifices in life. You cannot get that comfortable living without committing yourself to hours of hard work phsycially and emotionally. The truth is... no matter how much you hope and wish; nothing ends up falling into your lap. Some dreams do come true and it may feel like it happened over night but essentially a previous action or experience made your dream come true. Everyone has a destiny and everyone has the right to take control of their destiny. When things do not go your way, in many cases you can blame others but in MOST cases you can only blame yourself because some where a long the line there will be evidence of a bad decision or a time when you did not try hard enough to accomplish your goal. (Laziness and procrastation can steal your dreams)
Think of your vision of the future as a promise to yourself. Your heart consumes these ideal notions of what you want to happen during your journey through all of life's stages. Your heart is the one that loves it, enjoys it, feels the sense of accomplishment when it happens but your mind is what made it. Life is what you make it, so promise yourself that future and WORK to make it happen. We make short term decisions and long term decisions, follow your heart and make the decisions that you think will make your future brighter but always keep yourself prepared for the worse just in case because the unexpected is what changes our lives. Not everything can go according to plan, but if you try hard enough and practice your individual merits, then perhaps everything will RELATIVELY go according to plan?
We cannot survive without food. You cannot buy food without money. You can not get money unless you work. You cannot find work with out an education. Family educates and puts on in educational institutions. You have to pay for post-secondary education, and the cycle goes back to the fact that you need money to do that. You have to sacrifice time out of your social life to work. There are sayings about how time heals everything and that everything will fall into place, this is true but nothing will fall into place the way you want it to unless you do something to give your life direction. Along the way you will have to do things that you do not enjoy doing ( i.e dead end jobs we have all had them!) but in the end our efforts will gain us almost everything that we want, if its not what we want perhaps it will just get us everything that we need...and that should be more than enough. It can be painful making sacrifices but eventually we will gain something better from them. We just have to be patient, only time can tell the better we are going gain. You deserve what you worked hard for..... if you haven't worked then what do you deserve?